Are you in relationship where you find it hard to make your partner feel bad, realize they messed up and regret their decisions?. This article will show you a few ways on how to make him feel bad and apologise. You’ll also learn ways on how to help him understand what he did wrong and get him to say sorry.
How to make him feel bad and apologise
1. Make him miss you
2. Make him feel your detachment
3. Hang out with other people
4. Go out on dates with other people
5. Get rid off his gifting
6. Be independent
7. Show off your strengths so he can see them
8. Dress in your best outfits
9. Set out a time to discuss with him
10. Get to the point quickly but don’t jump to
11. Forgive him when he apologises.
Make him Miss You
Start by avoiding him, don’t talk to him, look at him or even smile at him. If he realizes his wrongs, it will make him feel sorry and apologise for everything he ever did. Also, if he asks you what is wrong or what he did, use the opportunity to tell him because it may be that he did not realize that he did something wrong.
Make him feel your detachment
There are times it is not possible to avoid the guy especially if you both work together or are are living together. If this is the case, you can make him miss the person you used to be, all the love and cheerfulness you reserved for him. Do not respond the way you used to but instead, act like you would with a casual friend.
Hang out with other people
Consider spending time with other friends and talk only to your other friends. Keep in mind, however, that this might also hint your other friends that something is wrongand they may or may not support you.
Go out on dates with other people
You may go out on dates with other people but don’t enter another relationship as you are not ready for one. If your man sees you’re enjoying yourself with other men, he will start to feel jealous and start regretting his actions.
Get rid off his gifting to you
All the gifts he gave you before the offense, give them away or toss them out especially if there is a chance that he might see them. It will send the guy the message that he hurt you and he might start to feel guilty for what he did and it will also help you feel relieved.
Being independent will show the guy that you don’t need him. Some men like to feel like they are always needed, so when you show a guy that you don’t need him to be happy or get by, his pride will take a dent and he might even realize that he messed up somewhere. He may not apologize immediately but he will at least try to make things up to you.
Show off your strengths so he can see them
If you are good in dancing, go dancing where he will be but dance with other guys instead. This will make him see your talents and miss them. Also he will start to miss you too and might regret hurting you.
Dress in your best outfits
Continue dressing up like you always do when you were going out with him. The moment he sees you looking nice for other people, he will start to feel jealous and less special. When he knows he has wrong you, he may feel sorry he ever did it. If you have never dressed up so good in the past, consider doing so when you go out by yourself but do this if you feel comfortable doing so. Build a new world that he can see but not join, though it may take a while but it will show him that you don’t need him to be happy.
Set out a time to discuss with him
You should know that talking about serious matters at the wrong time will only worsen the issue. If any of you are in a bad mood, the conversation is surely going to be less productive. Inform him before hand that you need to talk to him and try to set up a time and date when the two of you can talk without any distractions. And try to enter the conversation with a calm, level mind.
Go straight to the point but do not jump to accusations.
Other than saying words like “you were a huge jerk when you made fun of my figure”, try saying words like (your jokes about my figure the other day really hurt my feelings.”). The initial statement may make your man may start feeling defensive about the whole issue and he may stop paying attention to whatever you are saying.
Forgive him when he apologises
Never force a man to apologise, the more you force man to apologise, the more resistant he becomes. Some guys finds pleasure in it when someone demands an apology from them, they become more reluctant to apologize for what they did.
You should note that not all apologies are verbal, some men find it difficult to say sorry, but they’ll look for physical apologies like apologizing with a bouquet of flowers or smaller things.
AdditionalTips On How To Make A Man Feel Bad And Apologise.
1. Do not let a man bring you down with his hurtful words and actions.
2. All guys are not the same and thus not every method will work for every guy.
3. Don’t try to make yourself too special while ignoring him.
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